This quote by Mother Teresa is worth deep reflection, as you did in this article. It is good to give and a true blessing if those receiving are truly appreciative.

I have the experience of having given furniture to a friend who claimed to be needy, not enough beds for her children etc. But a week after having delivered to furniture to her home we found out she sold it all.

I am sorry for what your family, especially your father went through, Misbah.